quantumcupcakes: (BDSM)
Is there anything better than a long phone call with a good friend?

My friend Claudia and I don't see each other as often as we'd like to - she lives up in Manchester with her husband and we live down here in Cardiff - but we used to work together and we've known each other over 20 years. We meet up maybe once or twice a year but we ring each other every couple of months.

Earlier this evening she rang me, I settled down in a comfy chair with a glass of wine and some chocolate and we talked for hours. We caught up on what we'd been up to in the last couple of weeks since we'd last talked, we reminisced about 'the good old days', made plans for the future and basically put the world to right. I also made the effort to not just talk about myself, which I think we're all guilty of, and specifically asked about what she was up to, about the good things that have happened to her lately and celebrated her successes with her.

Between that, this morning's play session and an afternoon spent watching movies and generally chilling out, I feel completely relaxed and ready to take on tomorrow morning.
quantumcupcakes: (Agent Carter)
After what felt like the longest January ever, we're into February. Not a month I'm a huge fan of - a bit like January it's just dull, cold and wet, and this year it's that little bit longer with the Leap Year. Oh well, time to try and find some positivity and happiness among the gloom.

I started with making Jack & Lucy breakfast in bed. This seems to be becoming a first weekend of the month thing and I actually think I'm going to try and make it a tradition. Although Jack did come down and try to distract me while I was cooking. Apparently he really likes it when I'm wearing nothing but his shirt. Definitely something I need to remember! 😉 But included with the breakfasts were little notes for them both, telling them how much I loved them. what can I say, I'm a sap sometimes.

I continued the theme of telling people I loved them by ringing my brother, telling him how much I appreciate him and love him. He then of course panics and thinks there's something wrong with me, that I'm dying or I'm suicidal. And he doesn't believe me when I tell him I'm fine, and demands to speak to Jack. Jack reassures him that no, I'm fine. Clearly I need to tell my brother I love him more often.

I'd wanted to tell a few more of our friends but I was worried that they might over-react in the same way Mark did, so that idea kind of petered out which is a shame. But it's definitely made me aware that I don't tell the people in my life enough how much they mean to me, so I'm going to make more of an effort to do so going forward, but maybe a little more subtly.

To you reading this - I love you and I appreciate you being in my life. I apologise for not being as present online and in your lives and I am making an effort to be around more. I miss you, I miss knowing what's going on and having conversations
quantumcupcakes: (Default)
Once again we braved the crowds and headed out into Cardiff, this time down to the bay area. Rookie mistake number one because it was utterly freezing. Beautiful and my Doctor Who loving heart adores it there but it was very cold. And I swear there were twice as many people in the city as there were on Tuesday.

We met up with some friends, Daniel & Claudia, who Jack and I have known for years. In fact they first introduced us to each other 21 and some years ago. The 5 of us get on like a house on fire - once upon a time, before we met Lucy, there may have been a foursome. It was a lot of fun, we were curious about it, that was that, and we're still all friends. They live back up in Manchester though so we don't see them very often - sometimes only a couple of times a year. This year's been one of those years, it's only the second time we've seen them

We explored some of the Christmas happenings at the Millennium Centre, had a lovely meal overlooking the Bay, ate some amazing steak, I drank a little bit too much wine but we had so much fun. I can't remember the last time I laughed so hard. We really need to make a more concerted effort to see people next year - not just Dan and Claud but all our friends. It's hard, everyone's working but it's always worth it and today reminded me of that.

I had a little wine-induced nap and now I'm eager and excited to talk about what's happening on Mars. You have no idea how thrilled I am right now. There is a thing on Mars that was not there before! It's the first time a robot has picked up an instrument from its deck to place on the surface of another planet! It's the first seismometer on the surface of another planet.

And this seismometer is an incredible piece of technology. It detects vibrations as small as a hydrogen atom. It’s so sensitive that during testing in Colorado, they had to filter out the Pacific AND Atlantic oceans (& track any time anyone at facility opened a door)

If Mars as much as hiccups, it’ll know!

But wait! Mars doesn’t have plate tectonics, you're thinking, so why bother with a seismometer? Well, many things produce seismic waves! For Mars, we expect:
cooling contraction
interior heat
impacts
heat flow probe self-hammering

But you know what’s really, really cool? Over the coming months & years we’re going to get data to actually draw scale diagrams of the inside of Mars instead of bluffing. And we’ll know what’s the deal with it’s core. And mantle.

And we'll know this inside my lifetime.

Right now every drawing of every planetary interior you’ve ever seen except Earth has a fair chunk of us making shit up based on ranges of plausible explanations to fit limited data. But now we’ll have seismic data. That’s a 600lb gorilla of constraining internal structure.

We make a lot of assumptions based on Earth. Yet Earth is clearly the oddball of the solar system with its plate tectonics & all that water, so maybe we shouldn’t use it as our standard for 'normal'

I’m going to freak the fuck out if it’s gooey. How could it swish around and not generate magnetic fields?! Some cold lil nugget reflecting on a bygone era of fabulous volcanism would fit my mental model much easier.

This whole mission is just fucking astonishingly COOL!

All about ME!

I'm Samantha, I'm 55 and I'm a kinky, bisexual, polyamorous, Welsh geek who loves to bake and read.

I'm a retired physics teacher and am fascinated with astrophysics, space exploration, engineering and mechanics. I'm a rugby fan and an avid supporter of my Cardiff Blues.

I also love floral dresses, biker boots, leather jackets, dancing, yoga, 80s pop music, science-fiction, superheroes and chick lit.

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